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Things you can print and use tonight

Every resource here started as a question someone asked in the comments. They are printable, they are written in plain language, and they are priced so that buying one is an easy decision on a hard day.

Before the Crisis — The Paperwork Kit

Available now

The kit that starts everything else: what to get signed, gathered and saved while your parent can still tell you what they want.

  • The five core documents in plain language
  • The forms most families miss — Medicare’s CMS-10106, SSA representative payee, POLST
  • Document tracker, parent info sheet and medication list
  • Conversation starters, and the grab-and-go folder checklist

Free9 printable pages

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The Caregiver Binder

Coming December 2026

One place for everything you are currently keeping in your phone, your glovebox and your head.

  • Appointment log and questions-to-ask pages
  • Medication tracker, including what they have reacted badly to
  • Insurance, care team and emergency contact sheets
  • Hospital admission and discharge checklists
  • Printable dividers and a cover in the brand colours

$17Printable organiser

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Hard Conversations Script Pack

Coming February 2027

The talks that keep ending in a fight, written out line by line — including what to say when it goes badly.

  • Driving: taking the keys without taking their dignity
  • Moving: raising it before a fall makes the decision for you
  • Money: getting a look at the accounts without an accusation
  • Refusing help: five openers and how to follow each one
  • Siblings: the text to send, and what to do about the one who never answers

$27Word-for-word

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The First 90 Days

Coming May 2027

The whole transition in order: what to do this week, this month, and before the season changes.

  • Week-by-week plan for the first three months
  • Building the care team, and what each person is actually for
  • Money and benefits: Medicare, Medicaid, and what neither one covers
  • The house: what to change first, and what can wait
  • A chapter on you, because this is a marathon

$67Self-paced guide

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Why some of these say “coming” Each resource is built after the last one, from what readers say they need most. Join the list below and you will hear first — usually with an early price for the people who have been here from the beginning.

Not legal, medical or financial advice These are educational materials. Laws, forms and programme rules vary by state and change over time. For decisions about a specific person, talk to a clinician, an elder law attorney or a financial professional.